Travelogue: Sleeps 5

 In a country with a declining population, the tourism industry seems to have adapted.  Meaning, I've found it quite difficult to find reasonably priced hotels that sleep a family of five.  Certainly upscale ryokan (traditional Japanese inns) are abundant - and one can simply throw in more futons on the floor.  But these are quite the experiences including elaborate traditional breakfast and dinner, that can run $200+ per person per night.  Yup, you read that right.  

So, for our domestic travel, I've generally stuck to AirBnB.  I can find houses or apartments in most places for around $2-300/night.  Not a "deal," but at least within the realm of acceptable.  This is Japan, after all.  

Sometimes, though, I just want a hotel.  Someone else to keep the place neat and make breakfast, so it feels like a real vacation.  I've found two places so far ... and let's see by the time we leave Japan how many more I end up with on this list. 

Hotel New Hakuaki

• Ibaraki Prefecture, near Hitachi Seaside Park
• Japanese rooms can fit 5 or 6 on futons
• Rooms have full bath, and access to the onsen
• When I called the hotel, they were happy to adjust our charge to only have breakfast, fully understanding that my American kids don't eat fancy Japanese dinner. 
• Some of the staff could speak some English, but I communicated exclusively in Japanese

Hakuba Panorama Hotel

• Hakuba, Nagano Prefecture
• Combo Western/Japanese room can sleep 5 (two single beds, three futon)
• Full bath in room, and access to the onsen
• Communication in English no problem!  They can also help set up ski rentals, lessons, etc.

Gold Stay Nagoya Osu

• Nagoya, Aichi Prefecture
• Western style hotel room with bunk beds to accommodate 5 or 6.  Has a small kitchenette and a sofa to sit everyone, too.
• One stop from the main Nagoya train station
• Easy English booking on Booking.com with the messaging ap for any questions.

Mimaru Shinmachi Sanjo (Kyoto)

• Apartment style hotel, similar to Gold Stay Osu above.  Rooms for up to 6 people, with kitchenette and sofa.
• Locations in Kyoto, Tokyo, and Osaka.  Shinmachi Sanjo location was very centrally located in Kyoto, easy to main streets, taxis, and metro.  
• All self-catering, but a convenience store and super market within one block.
• Fully bilingual staff.
• A select number of rooms have a Pokemon! theme.

Travelogue: Yamagata

(editorial note - I am so out of practice posting here, I have forgotten how to wrap text around the photos.  So, to be edited eventually!) 

A 5-day rail pass to Tohoku for only 20,000 yen per person prompted Tohoku travel research.  Falling upon The Hidden Japan’s website, my son and I decided to go around Yamagata Prefecture.  Derek Yamashita, a former JET, now living in Yamagata and running The Hidden Japan (as well as a photography/video business), helped put together a really wonderful itinerary.  I highly recommend reaching out to Derek if any of this interests you! 

Day 1: Shinkansen Tokyo (9:24) → Yamagata (11:50).  Drop bags off at the Metropolitan Hotel at the station, quick tonkatsu lunch at Hiraboku at the station, to catch the 12:56 train to Yamadera.  The train only leaves once an hour, so you have to be quick! 

We spent the afternoon hiking up the 1,000 steps to Yamadera with a beautiful view over the valley.  On the way down, we enjoyed the shopping street where, if you’re lucky, farmers will also have tables out with fresh fruit!  

4:02 train back to Yamagata.  If you’re tired, check-in to the hotel, rest a bit like we did. More energetic folk might prefer to walk first to Kajo Park to see a restored castle.  For dinner, there are plenty of restaurants around the station.  We enjoyed a yakiniku place called Taiga run by a friendly grandma and grandpa.

Day 2: We packed this day with activities organized by Derek.  In the morning, a lovely woman named Horikawa-san opened her traditional home to teach us how to make tofu and imomi beef stew with Yamagata beef.  This was William’s favorite part of the trip (even though he doesn’t eat tofu!) because Horikawa-san was so friendly - and the stew was really tasty.  

In the afternoon, we took the train south to Kaminoyama Onsen for a three-hour guided cycling tour.  We visited a fruit farm (cut and eat!), a daimyo rest house turned museum (Naragesyuku Wakihonjin Takizawaya), and Tanno konyaku store.  The grapes were amazingly sweet, as were the pears.  The small museum has a number of treasures to see from the Edo times.  William tried the “meat flavored” konyaku and really thought it was yakitori!  I enjoyed the konyaku fruit flavored popsicle.  

Had we done the bike tour in the morning, I probably would have stopped at the Kaminoyama Castle before heading back to Yamagata.  But, in the fall that far north, it was already getting dark before 5pm!  Tired after our bike ride, we once again got Yamagata beef for dinner - an upscale  yakiniku place called Kaki Kiwami.  

Day 3: We headed to Zao Onsen for some hiking on mountains usually used for skiing.  Bus departed Yamagata Station at 9:20 (Y1000), arriving about 45 minutes later.  We dropped our bags off at Hotel Lucent Takamiya and then headed to the cable car to take us up.  After a snack at the Forest Inn Sangoro, we then went on a 1.5 hour hike on well-marked trails around Zao.  We stopped in the Sangoro lodge again for a tasty lunch - definitely try the pudding made with local milk and honey for dessert! - and then went on another hike (about an hour, return) to a waterfall.  

Cable car back down the mountain, and we were at our hotel between 3 and 4pm - enough time to enjoy the onsen (or catch a show on Netflix, if onsens aren’t your thing) before dinner.  Dinner and breakfast at the onsen were traditional Japanese.   

Day 4: We checked out early to catch the 8:40 bus back to Yamagata, arriving 9:25.  We had about 30 minutes to get a coffee and snack, and then took a 10:08 shinkansen three stops north to Murayama.  

Again arranged by Derek, we had a class in Iaido, a type of marshal art developed in Yamagata.  We learned about its history and tradition, some basic moves, and then at the end tested our skills with using a real blade to chop through a tatami mat.  The instructor was very knowledgeable and friendly and patient while Derek or I searched for the right Japanese word to help William understand (as William doesn’t speak Japanese).  

The original plan was then to try some of Murayama’s famous soba for lunch before heading back to Tokyo.  Either at a restaurant or maybe a place or two that lets you experience making it.  But, after such a filled schedule, William was ready for a quick snack and the shinkansen home.  (and a Shake Shack burger at Tokyo Station on arrival :) )

Out and About: Shinagawa Aquarium and Park

 It is broiling hot.  "Feels like 101" hot.  It will be hot like this until September, I expect.  It is also a four day weekend with the Olympics starting and VVIPs in town and not really a time for the parents to take a trip out of town, no matter how much the boys might want to return to Shimoda.  So.  What to do aside from the pool? 

I thought about taking the kiddos to check out Sporu, a big sports complex, but the surfing lessons were booked through the end of August (Japanese people love to plan!) and a walk to work and back left me drenched.  Idea postponed until fall. 

So, we opted for the Shinagawa Aquarium.  Last year we weren't doing things indoors ... but as this COVID thing has dragged on and 3/5 of us are vaccinated ... now things like the aquarium are still new. 

It's very manageable (2 hours is fine) and affordable (adult ticket about $13).  A perfect half day activity.  And, amazingly, all three children (who now span elementary, middle and high school) enjoyed it (though of course they whined about leaving the house and then made a beeline for the exit once they saw it. *sigh.)

The website showed a cafe and a restaurant, so I figured we'd get lunch there.  I was a little confused when we were walking up at 11:45 and all the couples, families and friend groups were at big picnic tables with their bento box lunches.  We kept walking down to the entrance -- only to find the cafe only sold coffee, ice cream, soda, and Japanese sandwiches (anko bean paste and butter, anyone?), and the restaurant had a line of 20 people.  SO, back to a "taco rice" food truck and the picnic tables it was.  Note to self: next time to bring our own lunch.  

The web tickets worked fine (yay), and they also sold day of tickets at the door (unusual in these COVID times, but maybe since it was such a manageable size, the turnover is high enough -- it certainly wasn't overcrowded).  Various websites mentioned the possibility of a fish foot spa, but the online ticket sales had a ticket to get your own pearl out of an oyster so I selected that option.  

The small one was too tired by the time we walked through to actually then wait our turn for the oyster pearl thing, so since that ticket is valid through the end of the year - and the oldest said it was fun enough to go back - I'll try and remember where in my wallet I put those tickets for safe keeping.  

On the way home, we walked by Shinagawa Children's Park.  A blog I like has apparently highly recommended it - not sure how I missed that!  But, remember at the top I said it was a "feels like 101" day, so needless to say after one ride each on the rope swing and stopping a few minutes to watch a middle school baseball game (the boys really miss sports teams ... the Japanese teams are all going, but the expat English ones and school ones were more COVID conservative), we went on our merry way.  Another thing to check out in the spring or fall - or next summer if the water park area opens up if a post-COVID world ever comes.  

And, in small signs that perhaps normal life is coming back, this neighborhood street near the train station looked decked out for a summer festival.  The matsuri my neighborhood used to have were pretty fun - I bet some neighborhoods now are really looking forward to having some again. 

Travelogue: Shimoda

 We're hardly taking any trips right now (thank you, COVID).  Others are more adventurous, but the thought of a kiddo getting a normal cold while we're somewhere else, in this hyper sensitive environment, causes me some second thoughts, especially about flying with the necessary airplane temperature checks.  Luckily, we found another family with two boys similar ages to ours, so we went skiing with them in February and to Shimoda in July.  

Shimoda is a well-known beach area on the Izu Peninsula - first gaining popularity in the 1970s for a domestic honeymoon spot (search in Japanese for "Shimoda romantic hotel" seems it may still be!).  Little coves all along the way make for different beach experiences.  

We rented an AirBnB near Kisami beach, well known for beginner surfing waves.  No, we didn't try.  But we did buy two body boards and had loads of fun jumping waves.  Every now and then was a pretty big one -- the boys and I each at various points didn't time a jump properly and got a little pummeled, but the undertoe wasn't too bad and we popped right back up.  The little kids, though, stuck to the waters edge and an area where a stream emptied into the ocean.  Our AirBnB host commented Sotoura beach was probably better for younger kids as it only has very gentle waves.

Since our children are creatures of habit, the lunch/dinners I didn't cook at home we ate at the White Beach Cafe, steps off of the beach, with pizzas, pastas and few other items.  Quite tasty - and even better they would let a family open a tab, so the kids could go over and order by themselves, with us settling up at the end of the day.  I'm sure other delicious eats exist, but why leave the 500 meter beeline from the house to the beach when there's something great along the way?  

What we didn't do in Shimoda was visit the museum where Commodore Perry negotiated the first US-Japan treaty.  (He landed in Yokohama in 1853, but then had a second visit in 1854 to ink the deal.  Wikipedia crash course here.)  A monk at the temple where the negotiation took place gave my language class a fantastic presentation - but the boys were having so much fun on the beach, messing around with the other kids, I didn't want to be "that mom" who spoiled the fun.  Especially since it was about a 4 hour drive and easy to return to.  So, I guess that means we have to go back!

Out and About: Hanegi Park

It's been COVID-times (korona-ka in Japanese) for over a year.  As a family, we are simultaneously itching to go out and do things while mindful of constantly fluctuating case numbers and a low vaccination rate.  Also, changing habits (sticking close to home) is really hard.  I used a mandatory dentist appointment yesterday as an excuse to explore a park recommended to us last summer - it was only four train stops from the dentist, and the boys could get Burger King takeout for picnic lunch to sweeten the deal.  

You can read someone else's blog about the park here: https://bestlivingjapan.com/hanegi-park/ All the same, I thought it would be fun to document places we've been under this "out and about" heading, so that (when we leave in a few years), I have a list of things to pass onto new families.  

Best attribute of Hanegi for our kids -- lots of climbing and no rules as long as you are safe.  They were on top of sheds and a small house in the park.  I almost had a heart attack when they were exploring new ways to climb up to a roof that involved balancing on a swinging door (!!).  Other fun stuff - a giant slide, and huge rope swing, a place to build a fire, and just general running around with no rules (such a rarity in Tokyo's parks).  

The only thing we couldn't figure out was how to spin a Japanese top.  (like this).  No matter how carefully we wound the string, we just couldn't get the wrist flick.  They didn't seem interested to try and learn at home it was so hard!  But, definitely would be a good non-iPad activity if they had the patience to learn.

On Driving

 I feel like I need to attach a GoPro to our car, so you can get a sense of driving here.  Obviously, driving on the left takes a little adjustment, but I learned to do that way back in the day in India.  Even after six months, I still occasionally turn on the wipers instead of the turn signal.  But only one time did I drive on the wrong side of the road (after pulling out of a parking lot onto a tiny street).  

What's really crazy, though, are the highways in town.  Driving on an elevated toll road that twists and turns and has no shoulder is really something.  Entrance ramps, exit ramps, or merging to other toll roads could be on either side as they are built for where space is - and there's not much space.  It requires such concentration to stay in the lane, stay aware of where cars are coming from, stay alert for the signs in Japanese (or unfamiliar English place names) for where to go, and stay focused on the road and not on the buildings/river/Mt Fuji.  

An hour trip south to Yokohama leaves me pretty tired.  I come back just after lunch and am pretty much shot for the day.  

And, while I've never experienced, I think speed racing at 2am on the highways must be a thing, because I can hear it from the highway near our house.  A friend confirmed my suspicions - and he said his friend told him she totaled her Porsche going around a curve too fast on the highway at a 3am joy ride.  And that Porsches are better than Lambos on the Tokyo highways.  I said he traveled in circles beyond mine :)  I don't think I'll be in a real life "Tokyo Drift" situation anytime soon - but I can see where the fascination comes from.

Cross cultural influences during childhood: paying cash

 A long running joke in my marriage is how I always like to put cash payments in an envelope.  Greg has rolled his eyes soooo many times as I hunted around the house for an envelope to pay someone, from a delivery guy to a nanny.  "Just give them the cash, they don't care!" And yet, still I just couldn't do that.  

One of our kids is now editing videos, also called "making Fortnite montages" in modern parlance.  He's gotten pretty good, occasionally winning "shout outs" on YouTube in small competitions.  His friends at school think this is really cool -- as you can tell, I'm still learning about this new world, but he's passionate about something that's creative and productive so that's great.  Productive as in, apparently kids actually pay him money to make these clips that they can then post on their social media.

Based on this reputation, one of his friends at school asked him to make a montage.  Our son came home today and said, "Look!  He offered to pay me $10 for the video! And he put it in this envelope he gave me at recess labeled 'For Fortnite Montage.'  It feels so much more official than getting passed cash!" 

Immediately... Greg burst out laughing. "Now I know why your mom always has to pay people cash in an envelope!" 

Incidentally, I never have to hunt for an envelope here because the stationary stores in Tokyo sell inexpensive envelopes just the right size for yen bills.  So, I simply bought a pack and keep it in my desk - so handy for operating in a society still so cash-based.